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5 Tips to Keep Your Kids Connected to Their Grandparents

Written by Jordan W. Jacob, Esq.

February 3, 2021
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It’s 2021 and we are still dealing with the effects of the coronavirus pandemic.  Bleh.

This last year has been difficult for everyone, but the elderly have been particularly hard hit. While businesses and schools have slowly started to reopen, health officials recommend that social distancing measures and mask mandates remain in place. Because seniors face the most health risks from COVID-19, most of them have been careful to avoid close contact with their family members.

This loss of in-person connection for such an extended period of time can cause people to feel isolated and lonely, which can eventually lead to mental health issues like depression. At the same time, children who are unable to spend time with their grandparents may experience confusion and anxiety over their lost relationship.

While there is no telling how long it will be before most social distancing restrictions will be lifted, it is important for grandparents and grandkids to find ways of maintaining a close relationship despite their physical distance.

With this in mind, here are a few tips for helping your kids to stay connected to their grandparents during the pandemic using both classic and web-based technology. And though video chats, texts, and instant messages will never replace in-person visits, they offer one of the most effective ways of keeping those relationships, and everyone’s spirits, as strong as possible during these dark times.

1. Reading Stories

One way for grandparents to feel more connected with their grandkids is to read stories over video chat or smartphone. Choose a favorite book at the grandchild’s reading level, and take turns reading pages. This can give the grandchild the added benefits of improving reading skills, building their vocabulary, and helping them develop their speaking abilities. By picking a regular time to call and read together each week, it can also give both of them something to look forward to.

2. Playing Games

Even though in-person visits are too risky right now, family game night can still happen. Grandparents and grandkids have many options for online gaming, including even classic board games, such as Scrabble, Monopoly, and Clue. Like their traditional counterparts, online games also help children develop math and vocabulary skills while they are having fun.

3. Emailing, Texting, and Instant Messaging

Texts, emails, and IMs sent to one another on a regular basis can help grandparents stay connected and up-to-date with the latest developments in their grandkids’ lives. To catch up with one another, seniors can talk about what is happening in their lives and ask the grandkids to discuss the latest events in their own lives. When grandchildren use texts and emails, it also helps them practice writing out their thoughts and work on their spelling and grammar.

4. Mailing Letters or Postcards

These days, letter writing almost seems like lost art. But sending personal letters and postcards is a great way for grandparents and grandchildren to connect with one another. Handwritten letters and postcards can also be prized keepsakes that will help grandchildren remember their grandparents long after they are gone. When possible, children should be encouraged to hand-write letters and postcards instead of typing and printing them out. They can also decorate their letters or postcards with drawings and art.

5. Group Video Chats and Phone Calls

Tech-savvy grandparents can use video chat apps like Skype, FaceTime, and Google Duo to visit with the grandkids in a group setting, where everyone can see and interact with one another. Video chats also allow grandparents to see how their grandchildren age over time, which can be extremely rapid during their first few years of life. Even extremely young children like toddlers can participate in video chats, which can help them bond with their senior loved ones, even across vast distances.

And if video chats aren’t something a senior feels comfortable with, a similar experience can be achieved simply by using a cell phone or even a landline set to speaker mode. These video chats and phone calls can be scheduled, so they occur on an ongoing basis, such as every Sunday evening, which gives everyone something to look forward to. Even short, 15 to 20-minute calls made on a regular basis can help grandparents and grandkids feel more connected and less isolated.

For the Love of Your Family

With coronavirus infections and deaths continuing to surge to record levels, it is more critical than ever for parents and grandparents to ensure their estate planning is complete and up-to-date. This includes naming both short and long-term guardians for your minor children. If you have yet to name guardians for your kids, you should do so immediately.

In addition to ensuring your kids will be protected and provided for no matter what, the estate planning process can offer a unique opportunity to enhance your connection with your children and grandchildren. Communicating clearly about what you want to happen in the event of your death or incapacity (and talking with your kids about what they want) can foster a deep bond and sense of intimacy.

Although such conversations can feel awkward, I can help guide and support you in having these intimate discussions in an age-and-stage appropriate way with your children. In fact, my clients consistently share that after undergoing my estate planning process, they feel a deeper sense of connection with their children.

Schedule a no-cost initial consultation with me to learn more or get started by filling out an Inventory & Assessment today.

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